Okay #1 This is extremely tmi, I'm a 23 year old female who has vaginal issues. I can't relax during sex, I can't even think about wearing tampons, and to get me ready to do anything in bed requires at least two hours. It's exhausting, painful, and it made my sex life with my partner that I've been with for two years start to go down hill. I went to a doctor and was prescribed basically a topical muscle relaxer that didn't work and was kind of a turn off since it was so medicinal. So I decided to try this out. THIS IS AMAZING???? I know it's just a massage oil but it helps relax EVERYTHING and it's only slightly tingling, not that burning sensation you get from warming lube. Speaking of which, when you pair this with the foria intimacy lube, it's even better. It has helped me relax during sex and it keeps me relaxed for a good part of the day. It has even helped boost my sexdrive. I highly recommend this, whether you're single, in a relationship, or whatever, you're gonna love it????????